Monday, March 16, 2009
Monday, March 9, 2009
One of Crucial Characteristic of Communication
One of crucial characteristic of communication is irreversible..
The fact that communication is irreversible means that what we say and do matters, all of that has impact and sometimes we can't control it..
Once we say something to other person, that becomes part of relationship..
So remember,this principle keeps us aware of the importance of choosing when to speak and what to say or maybe not say anything^_^
Here are example from people that have experience with that..
"I do agree that communication is irreversible and we should stop and think before we speak, especially when angry. This did happen TO me, not BY me. My oldest daughter and my granddaughter both on the phone said some very very hurtful things to me and also in the process said they have disowned the family and want nothing to do with any of us ever again. I was so crushed by this and so hurt that it did take piece of my heart and not sure if it can be repaired anytime soon. This has building up with them for the past few years and I should have seen it coming but even then it would have hurt all the same. I am not the type of person to say angry or hateful/hurtful things to people and if I do get upset I will sit back and write it down and get it out of my system then destroy what I wrote. Sometimes I guess I am too easy going and get walked on and pushed around..."
"I always believe that when we have nothing nice to say... it is best to just keep quiet... i got into a lot of trouble when i was younger... because i lack the tact needed when talking to others... but i have already changed... and i always try to think first before i open my mouth... or i might get into trouble..."
"I agree with communication is irreversible... There's a guy often give compliment to a girl, actually when he said that maybe only talk, just compliment, or really sincere with-but there's no special feeling at all. But mostly girl uses their feeling whenever she get and do anything. So after heard sweet words that can flattering her heart, the girl will be easily to have special feeling with that guy. So just be careful (for every guys and girls) , sometimes we don't know that people around us can easily fall in love because what we talk or the way we talk to them. also at the end we can't control the effect of that.."
"Very true. If we are not careful we can hurt someone without realizing. Also, people watch us all the time and sometimes we don't even realize it..."
What we say (even negative/positive) and do matters, all of that has impact to the communicant and sometimes we can't control their perception, feeling, thought, act, etc..
When we become communicator, we should thinking twice about what we gonna say also please remain always...
Don't talk without think but we can think without talk ^_^
The fact that communication is irreversible means that what we say and do matters, all of that has impact and sometimes we can't control it..
Once we say something to other person, that becomes part of relationship..
So remember,this principle keeps us aware of the importance of choosing when to speak and what to say or maybe not say anything^_^
Here are example from people that have experience with that..
"I do agree that communication is irreversible and we should stop and think before we speak, especially when angry. This did happen TO me, not BY me. My oldest daughter and my granddaughter both on the phone said some very very hurtful things to me and also in the process said they have disowned the family and want nothing to do with any of us ever again. I was so crushed by this and so hurt that it did take piece of my heart and not sure if it can be repaired anytime soon. This has building up with them for the past few years and I should have seen it coming but even then it would have hurt all the same. I am not the type of person to say angry or hateful/hurtful things to people and if I do get upset I will sit back and write it down and get it out of my system then destroy what I wrote. Sometimes I guess I am too easy going and get walked on and pushed around..."
"I always believe that when we have nothing nice to say... it is best to just keep quiet... i got into a lot of trouble when i was younger... because i lack the tact needed when talking to others... but i have already changed... and i always try to think first before i open my mouth... or i might get into trouble..."
"I agree with communication is irreversible... There's a guy often give compliment to a girl, actually when he said that maybe only talk, just compliment, or really sincere with-but there's no special feeling at all. But mostly girl uses their feeling whenever she get and do anything. So after heard sweet words that can flattering her heart, the girl will be easily to have special feeling with that guy. So just be careful (for every guys and girls) , sometimes we don't know that people around us can easily fall in love because what we talk or the way we talk to them. also at the end we can't control the effect of that.."
"Very true. If we are not careful we can hurt someone without realizing. Also, people watch us all the time and sometimes we don't even realize it..."
What we say (even negative/positive) and do matters, all of that has impact to the communicant and sometimes we can't control their perception, feeling, thought, act, etc..
When we become communicator, we should thinking twice about what we gonna say also please remain always...
Don't talk without think but we can think without talk ^_^
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